Managing your own health and wellbeing with a long-term health condition

When you have a long-term health condition it is important you stay well, so you can continue doing the things you love and continue with every day tasks. Managing your long-term health condition can be a real challenge. This can lead to common everyday situations becoming overwhelming. Some symptoms can become more difficult to manage.

Sleep

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Why is sleep important?

Sleep is essential for good health and wellbeing. It allows the body and mind to rest, repair, and restore energy. Most people need around eight hours of quality sleep, although individual needs vary.

Poor sleep can affect concentration, mood, and energy levels. Ongoing sleep problems may increase the risk of physical and mental health conditions, including anxiety and depression. Sleep and mood are closely linked, with each affecting the other.

What affects sleep?

Caffeine, alcohol, and some medications can disrupt sleep, especially when taken close to bedtime. Regular physical activity and gentle exercise can help improve sleep quality.

A consistent bedtime routine, a calm sleeping environment, and avoiding screens for at least an hour before bed can support better sleep. Keeping a sleep diary can also help identify habits or factors that affect your sleep.

NHS sleep and tiredness

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Pain and fatigue

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Pain and fatigue can prevent or limit the things you want to do, or need to do. It can also make existing symptoms worse, such as depression, lack of sleep, stress and anxiety.

  • Continue taking any regular prescribed medications and follow advice from your doctor
  • Understand the causes of your pain or fatigue and problem solve them
  • Exercise at a gentler pace and build it up gradually.  If you can’t exercise try going outside to get some fresh air
  • Eat well balanced meals and drink plenty of fluids
  • Have enough rest periods throughout the day
  • Ask others for help when necessary
  • Establish regular sleep patterns

If you are unable to self-manage your pain and fatigue or levels increase, speak to your doctor.


Stress and anxiety

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These symptoms are common, usually only lasting until the situation causing them lasts. If symptoms are not addressed or left for a long time, they can make other symptoms more difficult to manage.

Identify the causes of your stress, anxiety or difficult emotions. Problem solve to find solutions or ask for solutions from others. Other useful tips:

  • Take regular physical activity
  • Manage pain and fatigue
  • Establish regular sleep patterns
  • Distract yourself to ‘park’ those symptoms. Such as gardening, reading a book, listening to music
  • Talk and share with others
  • Relaxation
  • Get help online with a range of information and resources:

If you feel you are unable to cope with your emotions please consult your doctor for further help and advice.


Depression

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Feeling sad is a normal part of life, but when low mood lasts for a long time it may be a sign of depression. Depression can affect how we feel, think and behave.

Common signs include:

  • Anxiety or fear
  • Negative thoughts
  • Loss of interest or enjoyment
  • Tiredness and low energy
  • Sleep or appetite changes
  • Poor concentration
  • Feelings of worthlessness

Helpful tips

  • Do activities you enjoy, such as listening to music, reading, watching a favourite film, or spending time outdoors.
  • Stay active with regular exercise, walking, or gardening.
  • Keep in touch with family and friends and ask for support when needed.
  • Maintain a daily routine and set small, achievable goals.
  • Focus on positives by keeping a gratitude diary or noting your achievements.
  • Create a self-soothe box with items that help you feel calm and comforted.
  • Take prescribed medication as advised and speak to your GP if you have concerns

NHS managing depression

If you feel you are unable to cope with your emotions please consult your doctor for further help and advice.


Shortness of breath

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Shortness of breath can be due to a variety of reasons. Such as:

  • stress
  • anxiety
  • increased physical exercise
  • emotional and mental demands and pressures
  • respiratory health conditions

To manage symptoms:

If your shortness of breath persists or worsens, seek medical attention.


Relaxation and breathing

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Relaxation and breathing techniques can help manage common symptoms of a long-term condition. The techniques aim to calm the body and mind.

Please note: Before any new exercise, speak to your doctor if you have health problems, or concerns. Some exercises may not be suitable for people with severe mental health problems.

The following are some useful links:


Problem solving

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Stress, anxiety, and difficult emotions can feel heavy, but understanding what’s causing them is the first step to feeling better. Once you know the source, you can start problem-solving and even ask for help if you need it.

Your Problem-Solving Guide:

  1. What’s the problem?
    Write down what’s bothering you.
  2. Prioritise one problem at a time
    Focus on the most urgent or stressful issue first.
  3. Can you do something about it?
    Ask yourself: “Is this within my control?”
    If yes, move forward. If not, think about coping strategies or support.
  4. Brainstorm solutions
    List as many ideas as you can — don’t judge them yet.
  5. Choose one solution
    Pick the option that feels most realistic and helpful.
  6. Make a plan
    Break it down into small steps.
  7. Stay focused
    Avoid jumping ahead or getting distracted by other problems. One step at a time!

Problem-solving won’t erase stress overnight, but it gives you a clear path forward and that can make a big difference.

Page last reviewed July 2026